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2/2/2013, 3:02 pm
Blitz kinda said what i wanted to say, we don't know much of the situation, you can make the best judgement.
And come on everyone deserves second chances, its super assholey to not think so. If no one's perfect, then everyone makes mistakes, which is what people learn from. How can people learn from their mistakes if they don't get another chance to do it right.

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2/2/2013, 3:03 pm
@Granadico wrote:(this is a perfect moment for Joey's "have a seat" meme")
So is anyone able to post in this or only people who have been in/are in a relationship?
I think anyone should be able to post, but make sure you say what experience you have so people can choose who they want to listen to.

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2/2/2013, 3:10 pm
Lol thanks guys. I would like a second chance yeah. I constantly dream about her.
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2/2/2013, 3:12 pm
I have no experience whatsoever because I'm, like, really reclusive in real life haha.

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2/2/2013, 3:25 pm
Alright, I kinda edited what I said in my post back there. Yeah, I agree with giving people second chances. It's just risky though because you never know if someone really learns their lesson or not.

I gave my current girlfriend of 9 months a second chance and it's working out great. However, other people aren't that lucky and end up becoming emotionally unstable or even mentally unstable. And even though my relationship with my girlfriends is going great I still have trust issues sometimes; I mean, it's not so bad that I'm constantly asking her what she's doing or who she is with, but more like every once in a while I get worried that some guy she might have some interest for thinks he's the shit and tries to make a move on her.

So, I mean, once damage is done it's kinda tough to get rid of. But if you really believe she still cares for you then sure go ahead with a second chance; I guess what I'm saying is don't just take her back because you want her back; take her back because you want her back AND because you really think she wants you too and won't hurt you. It's all about trust...
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2/2/2013, 3:29 pm
I mean, it's not so bad that I'm constantly asking her what she's doing or who she is with, but more like every once in a while I get worried that some guy she might have some interest for thinks he's the shit and tries to make a move on her.

I think that too v.v

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2/2/2013, 3:34 pm
Yeah it's super tough to deal with sometimes, but it really is just hoping that it won't happen or that if it does then trusting she'll do the right thing and walk away.
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2/2/2013, 3:41 pm
You and me Rapid are in the same situation kinda. Its not her that you dont trust, its other people, i'm the same way. And we're only together now cuz of a 2nd chance (well both of us gave each other a second chance kinda). That's why i said give it time for the second chance, she has to really prove she learned from it and knows what she wants and all taht.

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2/2/2013, 3:43 pm
@Granadico wrote:You and me Rapid are in the same situation kinda. Its not her that you dont trust, its other people, i'm the same way. And we're only together now cuz of a 2nd chance (well both of us gave each other a second chance kinda). That's why i said give it time for the second chance, she has to really prove she learned from it and knows what she wants and all taht.
You, Rapid and 32234324 million people out there are in that similar situation.

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2/2/2013, 3:45 pm
So I shouldn't talk to her for a while? ....that's gonna be hard xD

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2/2/2013, 3:46 pm
@Rapidfir3Pho3nix wrote:I guess what I'm saying is don't just take her back because you want her back; take her back because you want her back AND because you really think she wants you too and won't hurt you. It's all about trust...

Pretty much this. If you just go back to her then it could end up making things worse Still, yeah, I think things like staying in university and sorting yourself out should come before her. Going back to her without actually thinking things through could still very well make things worse than they already are.

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2/2/2013, 4:06 pm
Yeah and you don't have to completely stop talking to her just give yourself some space to think.
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2/2/2013, 4:08 pm
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@Granadico wrote:You and me Rapid are in the same situation kinda. Its not her that you dont trust, its other people, i'm the same way. And we're only together now cuz of a 2nd chance (well both of us gave each other a second chance kinda). That's why i said give it time for the second chance, she has to really prove she learned from it and knows what she wants and all taht.
You, Rapid and 32234324 million people out there are in that similar situation.
well none of you said anything about being in a situation like that Razz

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2/2/2013, 4:11 pm
I'd say to cut ties with her for a little while. The more you focus on her the more you're hurting yourself. Focus on what's more important. Your university work, you said you'd probably be kicked out if you don't start focusing on your school work. i think THAT'S what you need to focus on right now.

that's my advice.

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2/2/2013, 4:12 pm
@NS01 wrote:So I shouldn't talk to her for a while? ....that's gonna be hard xD
just animated you feelings.its suppose to be an outlet anywhere

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2/2/2013, 4:16 pm
@SXR123 wrote:I'd say to cut ties with her for a little while. The more you focus on her the more you're hurting yourself. Focus on what's more important. Your university work, you said you'd probably be kicked out if you don't start focusing on your school work. i think THAT'S what you need to focus on right now.
that's my advice.
forgot about that. do that too, if you really do love this girl, and you wanna take care of her, you should probably make sure you don't fail making it harder to do that

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2/2/2013, 4:19 pm
Good idea ^ (to face)

She said to me on steam, like 2 days ago that she is "punishing" me. She wants to make me feel like how she did, left behind.

Now. Even if she said she wants to be friends...I still feel as though she is punishing me. When I said "block me" she panicked and changed the subject twice. I am afraid that if I don't talk to her, she'll get the wrong idea that I've stopped coming after her?
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2/2/2013, 4:25 pm
@NS01 wrote:She said to me on steam, like 2 days ago that she is "punishing" me. She wants to make me feel like how she did, left behind.
you never mentioned that. how did she feel left behind?

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2/2/2013, 4:26 pm
Wait, she's "punishing" you for just wanting to be friends? I... what?

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2/2/2013, 4:27 pm
I say don't focus on anything but your school work. animating takes a lot of motivation and focus. He just said he didn't have any motivation to animate anything so animating things isn't going to help.

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2/2/2013, 4:27 pm
To Granny -

We get in fights like the usual couple. However we are both stubborn and sometimes don't end up talking to each other for a whole day. When I dont talk to her, she'll get insecure. Think differently i.e. me talking to other girls. She will get insanely jealous if i mention another girls name out of nowhere. Is she trying to get pay back?

Before -

me (2/2/13 6:27:48 PM): Block me...
her (2/2/13 6:28:19 PM): huh
me(2/2/13 6:28:27 PM): Just block me lol
her(2/2/13 6:29:39 PM): i have to take
her (2/2/13 6:29:43 PM): the biggest wizzzzzzzz
me(2/2/13 6:29:48 PM): xD (me in reality -___________-)

Again -
me (2/2/13 7:12:15 PM): block me from here. delete me and block me on skype and steam.
her (2/2/13 7:12:41 PM): no thanks
her (2/2/13 7:14:41 PM): Why would i
me (2/2/13 7:15:09 PM): it'd be easier to forget
her (2/2/13 7:17:19 PM): *she inserted puppy picture* ||||||||||||||||||||oooooooooooooooooooooooook how cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Me in reality: -____________-

WHATS GOING ON D:
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2/2/2013, 4:30 pm
Okay, yeah, she seems extremely obsessive.

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2/2/2013, 4:32 pm
...Just, what the fuck...that's all I can say...What the fuck...
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2/2/2013, 4:33 pm
Yeah seriously. Like...is she toying with me or something xD

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2/2/2013, 4:34 pm
Feeling forgotten =/= normal couple's spouts. One's a normal human problem, one's a bad relationship problem.
and wtf...is she even trying?

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